When the customer who has a problem becomes angry, it becomes impossible for you to resolve the situation. In this case, the first thing to do is to calm the angry customer. This article give you some concepts and techniques that can be used to do this effectively.
The Basic Human Needs
Each of us has psychological needs. These needs are so basic that we must maintain a minimum level of each to feel life is worth living. These basic human needs are:
- A recognition of self-worth and some feeling of importance.
- A sense of love and belonging
- A feeling of self-respect and dignity
- A feeling of some personal power and self-esteem
- A feeling of financial stability
The people in the accounts receivable department face these psychological needs everyday as they interact with their customers. If you understand that each person you talk to must have their basic needs enhanced and strengthened, you will do your jobs better.These needs are the soil in which you plant your seeds. Study them closely so that you can use them wherever and whenever possible.
Listen To Their Story
When you answer the phone, or meet a customer in person, and the person is openly angry or hostile, calm yourself and listen intently to his or her story. Listen to what he or she has to say from beginning to end, without saying anything. Show that you are listening and that you understand what your customer is saying by a simple “yes” or “no” where appropriate.
If you have questions, or if you don’t understand something that is being said, take notes so that you can go back to the point and get it answered.
Try to see the customer’s point of view, and try to see if you can agree with him or her. If you can agree, tell the person that you agree. If you can’t agree, say that you understand the problem and will try to resolve it.
After the customer has told you his or her story, and you have clarified any unclear points, explain what you can do to solve the problem. If you can’t agree with what the customer perceives as the problem, ask what he or she wants you to do. It is at this point that you know where you can start your negotiation.
Turn Off Anger
In this type of situation, you must be able to set your ego aside and act as objectively as possible. It is difficult to act objectively when someone is venting his or her anger at you personally, but if it appears to be a legitimate complaint, try to understand the other person’s state of mind and act calmly and quietly. Listen for the content of what is being said, not the method of delivery.
If you show patience and a genuine concern for the customer’s situation, you will find that the person will start to quiet, and finally you will be able to approach the problem rationally.
Find the Real Reason for the Anger
Sometimes you will get a person who is so worked up that you have a hard time figuring out what the problem really is. If this is so, once the person is quiet, you can start asking questions that will reveal the real reason for the anger.
Your questions should use the standard probing system, which attempts to establish the who, what, where, when, and why of the problem.
Dispel Suspicion and Mistrust
Once you know the exact nature of the problem, you can start to build trust and develop a rapport with the customer. Again, your attitude is the key to this turnaround in the customer’s attitude. If you convey sincerity and a genuine concern for helping the person, he or she will generally respond with a change of attitude.
If the person continues to be hostile and angry after you have taken all the steps we have talked about, you may be dealing with an irrational person, in which case you may never be able to resolve the problem.
On the other hand, if the person continues to be hostile, this can signal that you are dealing with someone who is attempting a ploy to gain a reason not to make a payment. The most effective way of telling if this is the case is to ask point-blank what the person wants you to do. If the customer mentions not making a payment, and you have not been able to establish a genuine problem, you are probably dealing with a ploy. The response to this type of person is a direct answer that says you cannot defer the payment but that you will investigate the problem and share your conclusions with him or her later.
Help the Customer Get What He or She Wants
If you are dealing with a true problem situation, your main task is to help the person get what he or she wants. It may be fine for you to simply straighten out the customer’s account and leave it at that, but if you are a bank and the mistake was a misdeposit of the customer’s money, you may have to write letters of explanation to companies that received checks that bounced.
Be sure you understand fully what the customer wants you to do to resolve the problem so that you can leave him or her completely satisfied with how you handled the situation.
Establish a Commitment for Action
The last thing that you must do is tell the customer what action you are going to take to resolve the problem. This is a commitment by you to take action. It ends the problem and assures the customer that certain tasks will be completed within a defined time.
This is the process that you can use to solve the problems that you encounter. It is a simple, straightforward process that leaves no loose ends hanging, and it assures the customer that his or her problem will be resolved.